I'm a Savage...
Sooooo ... today’s blog isn’t about being a savage. I just wanted to get your attention. HA! However, what it is about is something that you should be a savage about and that is what we like to call NON NEGOTIABLES! Those little annoying things that fvck boys and girls like to call STANDARDS! *insert sarcastic gasp here*
Some people are fans of them, some aren’t. However, both parties stand to lose a little or a lot if you don’t go into situations with these things in mind annddddddddd if you don’t know exactly what you’re looking for. But, that’s another blog for another day!
Now, we aren’t saying you should have a strict list of the fairy tale you imagine your relationship to look like OR if your potential partner doesn’t get a check mark for everything on your wish list you kick them to the curb.
However, what we are saying is that in order to have some level of success in your relationship, you must write it down and make it plain. You must have a clear vision of what you desire in a partner and what you bring to the table as well. You must know what is acceptable and what’s not acceptable for you, personally. You must know what a whole person coming to you looks like because K.Michelle said it best, we cannot raise a man! You must be able to readily identify if have a good potential mate in front of you or know when it's time to exit stage left. All in all, what we are trying to say is that you must know what you’re looking for in order to go find it and having a handy dandy list of non negotiables and standards readily available will help you to make sure you get it right when choosing a partner or at least have a fighting chance! Lastly, if you need more help in this area, tune into epsiode 9 pf the podcast for the fullll lowdown!